Last night, i was listening to one of Taylor swift’s song and it got me thinking. I find her inspiring and a great singer who is a great song writer as well. In other words, i find her perfect. However, my brother has a different perception. I don’t mean he hates or so. He doesn’t get amazed looking at her like i do. He doesn’t hums her song all the time. He doesn’t jumps in excitement whenever he hears her song. But, i do. I kept thinking, why hadn’t he behaved like me while seeing this “perfect human” of mine? Then i realized perfection must be perception. Like he doesn’t jumps in excitement over her(Taylor’s) songs, i too, dont get excited over his favorite songs.
We, sometimes, get so caught up in trying to be perfect that we often forget, it differs. We always try to be a person loved and admired by everyone. And, one person, one disapprovement, one comment bugs us and we feel bad about our entire existence. We try to change that and feel worthless due to our unsucessful attempts. So, at times we must be able to remind ourselves that even if we made no mistakes in our work. There will always be one person who will find some errors and may try to bring you down. If, by looking at a glass of water, you state it to be half full, atleast one will surely claim it to be half empty! So, perception differs, so does perfection. Hence, as long as you feel okay, you don’t have to worry about other’s hurtful comments.And if you ever feel you aren’t good enough or beautiful enough. Don’t worry, it’s just your perception.